Because of the fact that men feel very awkward about their feelings and most of the time they don’t know how to express them, to prevent themselves from looking uncool or putting themselves in a vulnerable situation, they tend to keep the little things they love about you a secret. With this said, we asked some men in private about what they love about their girlfriends but will never tell them and they all had the same 10 things in common. We will be listing them here for you, to make you see inside the head of your man and to know that he loves you even more than you think he does:
Is Your Man Losing Interest?
You might be using dangerous words and phrases that affect your man much more than you might realize. (Most women do this without even knowing it, and accidentally kill their man’s attraction towards them)
The good news is, you can make a simple shift in your thinking that can bring a level of attraction, love, and security to your relationships that you never imagined was possible!
1. He loves the way you smile when he kisses you
It doesn’t matter whether it’s a kiss on the cheek or the lips—when he kisses you and you smile, it means that he made you happy. It’s the only reassurance he needs from you—your smile. Nothing else matters right now because he made you happy and that’s his utmost priority; when he sees that a simple gesture like a kiss can make you smile, he knows that you appreciate and love him, too.
2. He loves being physically close to you
He doesn’t want to tell you this because you might consider it as a s_-ual desire, but it’s much more than that. He loves to cuddle with you, to sleep by your side and listen to your heartbeat. He wants you to lie next to him or lay on his chest, so he can kiss your forehead. Don’t ask me why—it’s men stuff.
3. Your contagious laugh
As you can see so far, he loves everything that shows that you are happy. When you laugh out loud, he can’t help but laugh as well. When you’re happy, he’s happy. There is nothing more attractive to a man than the way a woman laughs.
4. The way you look at him
You might not be aware of this, but you look at him in a special way— the way people look at little kids and puppies is the way you look at someone or something you love. He adores that look because it makes him feel special and if you’re making him feel this way, he will get addicted to that feeling and he will always want to be in the center of your attention (but he won’t ever say it)!
5. Your passions
Isn’t it wonderful to see someone who’s fully passionate about something? It shows that the person has a goal and that they put meaning into everything they do. That’s why he loves it so much. Your passions are very important to him and they fill him with joy. Sometimes, it may even inspire him to go after his passions as well.
6. He loves how natural everything is with you
There is no need to fake anything. Nothing is hard for him to do because you just go with the flow. He feels more comfortable with you than with anyone else. That’s why he acts weird sometimes or even farts and burps around you, because he knows that you love him for who he is and there is nothing he needs to be ashamed of.
7. The way you hold his hand
They are just made for each other, right? The way your hands fit perfectly together and he never wants to let go. It’s a small thing, but it shows such a huge amount of love for the other person. Because you don’t need to be naked to be physically intimate and that’s what holding hands is for.
8. The way you treat little kids and pets
There is just something so special about a woman who knows how to treat kids and pets. You love every being and that’s what makes you lovable, too. You look so pure when you play with your little siblings and so cute when you run around with your dogs. It’s probably not a huge deal to you, but he noticed and he will hold on to it forever
9. Your touch
Your gentle touch is so wonderful to him. You do it unpurposely but it makes him remember how vulnerable you are and how sweet, so he needs to do everything to protect you. This makes him even more drawn to you, because he will feel more like a man around you. But he will still melt in your hands.
10. Your determination
It’s about the way you live your life to the fullest and that you don’t need anyone to tell you what to do because you have your goals set and you are determined to achieve them. Even if you’re shy and you don’t show it that much, that sparkle in your eyes that you have every time you think about something you want is enough to drive him wild and make him fall even more in love with you.