When you date an alpha woman it means that you are dealing with a woman who is not like ordinary women. She knows what she wants, how she wants it and when she wants it, and if you try to change her, she will dump you the same second. She is someone who is independent and who can speak her mind but on the other hand, she is quite emotional and good-hearted.
So, for all of you guys who think that dating an alpha woman will be a piece of cake and that you will be able to twist her around your little finger, I have some bad news for you. Not only will you get hurt in a relationship like that but if she doesn’t get the love she needs, she will do everything to make you hate all other women. And that, my friend, is not an easy thing to do. Here is what you need to know before even starting to date her, so read carefully.
1. She doesn’t need you
In fact, she doesn’t need anyone. She knows how to survive on her own and she definitely doesn’t need a man to complete her. A woman like this will never show that she needs you but that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t want you badly. She is independent, self-sufficient and she feels damn good in her own skin. So, whatever you do, don’t try to change her because you won’t succeed.
2. She is emotionally stable
She is not the type of woman who will cry herself to sleep just because you were hitting on another girl. She knows how much she brings to the table and she surely won’t waste her time or her tears on you. A woman like this knows what she deserves so she won’t settle for less than what she deserves.
3. She is surrounded by positive people
The last thing she needs is emotional vampires who will just suck her dry. Her doors are closed to people like that and she is only surrounded by positive ones. So, if you try to make her fight with her family and friends or if she sees that you are not the man you pretended to be, she will leave you and won’t even give you an excuse as to why.
4. She is not easy to handle
With a girl like this, you will have to go the extra mile to show her how much you love her. It won’t be enough for her to buy her expensive gifts and, in doing so, buy her love. She wants you to spoil her with loyalty. Ordinary things are not for her and she won’t settle for them. So, if you really love her, show her that she is special and that you are so blessed to have her in your life.
5. But she is worth every second of your time
She has a strong attitude and she won’t let any man lead her on. So, don’t freak out the first time she declines to do something for you. She does that because she doesn’t feel comfortable and you should respect that. In fact, you can actually learn from her attitude so that you can work on yourself. I am sure it will benefit you in different ways and you will become a better person because of her.
6. She knows what she wants
And she wants it right away. For a woman like this, there are no obstacles and no problems that she can’t handle. She is progressive and she will do anything to achieve her goals. When she decides to go after something, she will let you know about that and you can be sure that she won’t change her mind just because you don’t like something about it.
7. She is smart
A woman like this is smart and she knows when it is time to express her opinion. She is not ashamed to talk about things that are considered to be taboo in front of other people and she definitely won’t feel bad about it. In fact, she will be proud of mentioning something that others would like to mention too but are too scared that society won’t accept them if they do.
8. She will challenge you a lot
A woman like this is known as someone who will challenge you a lot. She will argue the whole day with you if she has to just convince you that she is right. She will push you to your limits and she will want to make a better person out of you. Thanks to her, you will reveal that you have some abilities that you didn’t know you had.
9. She wants you to respect her
If you want to date an alpha woman, you should respect everything about her—her lifestyle, her opinion and the way she drinks freaking coffee in the morning. She can’t live with someone who will always tell her to change this or that because if she is to be changed, it will be because she wants it and not because others do. She wants you to have your opinion but to respect hers as well.
10. She doesn’t want you to protect her
She is the kind of woman who can live on her own so don’t try to protect her. She knows how to do that by herself and she will just be irritated if you offer her something like this. Just let her be and always, but always, have good communication with her because that is the key to every successful relationship.