Words are easy to manufacture. But true and lasting love is proven through action. How can we learn from those who have proven their love through the decades, trials, and countless challenges?
The quotes below come from real couples who have earned the right to their words. Each was nominated by their friends, family or coworkers as an ‘Inspiring Couple’ for giving them a reason to believe again in love.
Here are some inspiring love words for couples in love:
- “Have respect for each other and be honest even in the little things. Always put the needs of others before your own, and don’t let your love die.”
– Randy and Cheri Blackwood (married since 1979)
- “The biggest stumbling block couples face is unmet expectations – children, responsibilities, finances, etc. The more a couple discusses their expectations for every area of life, the better they can predict where their differences will be and deal with them objectively.”
– Bob and Annette Wallace (married since 1992)
- “Love’s passion is wonderful, but it’s just as important that you really like and respect the person you are about to make a lifetime commitment to … Couples should ask themselves: Would I be friends with this person even if we weren’t in love?”
– Bill and Shirley McConnell (married since 1953)
- “Have open expectations; setting unrealistic expectations will cause you to fail. Be patient, build trust, learn to communicate and forgive.”
– James and Nancy Lawson (married since 1973, shown above)
- “You have to be committed and protect your marriage at all costs. There is nothing you can’t work through. Even if you don’t feel like loving your spouse on hard days, you have the power to lead your heart.”
– Kevin and Amanda Johnson (married since 2003)
- “Show respect for each other … be supportive and work together as a team. Enjoy quality time together but allow each other the independence to do your own thing and pursue personal interests.”
– Jesse and Anita Martinez (married since 1948)
- “Live a positive life – it’s contagious. Have a sense of humor, respect each other, learn how to communicate well and remember why you fell in love.”
– Matt and Kelly Allen (married since 1991)
- “Honor your commitment. The most important commitment you should have on this earth is to each other.”
– Jim and Robin Riley (married since 1968)
These couples are not selling anything. But they are buying something—the idea that love can endure and a relationship can truly grow richer over time. Without at least believing in the possibility of enduring love, a lasting relationship is nearly impossible to achieve.
Perhaps you don’t put too much stock in promises of eternal love and faithfulness. Perhaps you shouldn’t. But maybe we should put a little more faith in the evidence of love words in action. Before you dismiss the relationship “testimony” of credible couples, ask yourself what the consequences are for losing faith in the concept of lasting love. Be sure it is a price you are willing to pay—and one that you really need to pay in the first place.
Everlasting love may be scarcer than we’d all like, but it’s not a fantasy either. We are grateful to couples like these for reminding us that some couples really do grow old … and wise together.