It’s almost like there is something inside of men that prevents them from speaking about their feelings. It seems like they have a certain amount of fear when it comes to saying, ‘I love you.’ even if most of them wouldn’t admit it.
I guess they are just wired differently. Or maybe they’re even more scared of getting hurt than women are. They don’t want to out their feelings before they are 100% sure about them or until they feel safe enough to do so.
But one thing better than speaking about feelings is showing them, revealing them through actions, and men are masters of that.
It’s always more important what a man does than what he says. Words can be bent, but actions are always truthful.
If he truly has deeper feelings for you then he lets on, he will definitely match most of the signs listed below:
1. It’s all in his touch, kiss, the way he looks at you…
He stares at the freckles on your nose because he finds them adorable. He puts your hair behind your ear, so he can have a better look at your smiley face.
He pulls you close when he feels endearment towards you because of something you’ve said. He will hug you and kiss you often, and it will be intense.
He can’t keep his eyes off of you, no matter who is around. He looks at you like you are the most beautiful woman alive. Do I need to say more?
2. He shares a lot with you
He asks you about your day, and he always tells you how his went. He wants to know about your life because you are a big part of it.
He tells you about his day, his troubles, his past, his dreams and his thoughts because you mean a lot to him, and you are already in his heart.
3. He makes an effort to stay in touch
He shows you his love every morning by simply wanting to know if you slept well. He shows it every night by sending you a simple text with a goodnight kiss.
By doing these simple things, he is telling you that you are on his mind and that he couldn’t imagine his mornings or his nights without you in them.
4. He’s giving you his time
Without you even having to ask for it. He always finds time to spend with you no matter how busy he is.
He is letting you know that you matter. You can clearly see that he can’t wait to be with you.
It doesn’t really matter what you are doing or for how long, as long as you are together it’s fun and happiness all the way.
5. He is all about the little big things
He shows you he cares when he comes knocking on your door with take-out chicken soup while you are sick. If he can’t do that, he’ll at least text to check up on you and see how you are doing.
He will remember all the stories you have told him. He will ask you things—private, personal things. He will remember how you take your coffee and why you don’t like pineapples on pizza.
He will remember because he pays attention to the one he is in love with.
6. He doesn’t hide you
On the contrary, he is proud to have you in his life. You’ve already met some of his friends, and he always introduces you as his girlfriend even if it provokes redness in his cheeks.
He posts pictures with you on his social media accounts. And it doesn’t matter if it’s one picture or tons of them—you can’t measure love like that. What matters is that he is not hiding you from people in his life, not even virtual ones.
7. He stays by your side, no matter what
He is there when you are sad. He doesn’t run for the hills when things get tough for you. He stays, and he supports. He knows that not everything can be perfect all the time.
He doesn’t back down when you are mad at him or you just had a fight. He always does his best to talk things through and solve all the issues you might have.
If he realizes that he was wrong, he will apologize without a problem and do his best not to repeat something that has hurt you.
8. He looks forward to certain things in the future
He is talking about a concert or a movie premiere a few months from now. He is talking to you about the summer or winter holidays and where would you like to go.
He makes plans in advance even for a dinner date next week. He is making an effort to show you that he sees you by his side for the long run.
9. He is actually telling you a lot—you just have to stop and notice
If he does most of the things listed above, you are one of the lucky ones. He makes you feel his love, and that’s something more powerful than all the words in the world.
And when you think about it, simply talking about his feelings seems so common and simple. This is ten times better.