Before we start anything, I would like to clarify what a real twin flame is. So, a twin flame is what is known to be your better half, or your soulmate. If you find your twin flame, it means that you found the love of your life.
But the problem occurs when you mix up a twin flame with a fake twin flame. So, you end up with someone, thinking he is your soulmate but in fact he is the wrong one. And we all know what happens when you stay with the wrong one, right?
You simply close all the roads for the right one to find you. That’s why I decided to make a list of differences between a twin flame and a fake twin flame. So, let’s start!
1. A twin flame will make you feel calm
If you are with your twin flame, you will feel the peace within. You will feel like you belong to him and nothing will be strong enough to separate you from him.
You will realize that he is your person and that nobody except him can make you feel the way he makes you feel every day.
Maybe you won’t realize that when you are young but as time passes by, you will see that you are addicted to that person and that there is a valid reason for him stealing your heart.
– A fake twin flame will make you feel anxious
If you are engaged in a love relationship with someone you think is your twin flame but for some reason you don’t feel calm with them, it means that you are wrong.
I don’t blame you because people can often mix up twin flames with fake ones. Simply, when you spend a lot of time with someone, you get used to that life and you don’t know any better.
You don’t feel good when you are with that person and that is a sure sign of a fake twin flame.
2. A twin flame will commit immediately
If you are in a relationship with a real twin flame, he will commit to you immediately and he won’t leave as soon as you hit the first bump in the road.
He will be there for better or worse and no matter what happens, he will support you and never make you feel sad. He will be your best friend, your lover and the man you trust the most.
With him, love will feel like home. And trust me, that is all you need to be happy.
– A fake twin flame will vanish as soon as things get rough
You will know that you are not engaged in a real twin flame relationship if your partner disappears as soon as things get rough.
It means that he just used you while things were great but that he simply doesn’t want to fight together with you to overcome the problems you have. A fake twin flame will leave you, without any doubt about if he is doing the right thing, because he simply wants to satisfy his needs and not yours.
But you can’t know this until some problem occurs, so even if you chose the wrong man, don’t worry if you realized that in time.
3. A twin flame will make you feel good in your own skin
If you are in a relationship in which you feel good and appreciated, it means that you found your real twin flame.
Only a real man who loves you more than himself will make you feel like you are enough. With him, you will never feel like you are not worthy. You will never feel bad about your decisions because he will support each and every one of them.
If he is the real one, you will feel like the most beautiful woman in the world with him. And he will cherish you not only because of your outside beauty but because of the one that you carry in your heart.
– A fake twin flame will make you doubt yourself
Maybe it will take years to see that the man you live with actually criticizes you the most. Because when you spend a lot of time with someone, you easily get used to that treatment.
You don’t know how others treat their partners and you thank God for the man you have in your life because it could always be worse. But if the man you have known for so long makes you doubt yourself, then something is not right.
A man would never do that to the woman he is madly in love with and if your guy acts like this, you need to decide if he is really the one you have been waiting such a long time for.
4. A twin flame will show you his love all the time
Maybe he won’t show it with his words but his actions will speak the truth. He will treat you like the most important person in his life and you will feel his love even when he just looks at you.
Another way to know that you are engaged in a love relationship with your twin flame is that you will realize that he puts you first all the time.
You will see that he actually chose your happiness over his own so many times before and that is something that will make you the happiest woman alive.
– A fake twin flame will show you love only when it is convenient for him
You see, there is a clear difference between a man who loves you all the time, without stopping, and a man who loves you only when he needs you.
The first one is your real twin flame and the latter one is a fake twin flame. So, if you have someone who shows up only when he needs something from you, then it is a sign that he is not your soulmate.
He is just with you because by using you, he will reach his goals more easily. Now it is up to you whether you will put him in his place or you will give him another shot.
5. A twin flame will fight for you
Just because you met your twin flame doesn’t mean that you won’t have any trouble in paradise. But the thing is that problems can be solved if you put in some effort.
So, if a man is fighting for you, that is a sign he doesn’t want to lose you. That is a surefire sign you are dealing with the man of your dreams. Because only a man who doesn’t want to lose you will always try to find solutions to your problems.
– A fake twin flame will give up on you easily
Maybe you thought that you met the man of your dreams, your better half or your soulmate but if he gives up on you when you want him to fight for you, it is definitely a bad sign.
If the man you are in love with chooses other people over you, if he neglects you and gives you only the amount of love that would keep you close, then he is definitely not the right one for you.
It is only a matter of time before you will realize that and move on to start a new chapter of your life.