Meeting the perfect man and settling down with him is a dream for many women out there. And she is no exception. Only with her, there’s a catch.
Before she’s truly ready to meet the one, there are some things she simply needs to accomplish. And she fully plans on doing just that.
She wasn’t put on this earth to be in the constant search for her one.
She wasn’t put here to always be looking over her shoulder wondering if she missed the boat.
There are so many things to do, so many places to see and she wants to do so many of those things before settling down and changing her lifestyle.
For now, she needs to think of herself.
She needs to focus on what makes her happy right now and not what might make her happy in the future. And she has a plan.
There are 6 things she craves to do in this world before finally meeting her one, knowing she has lived her life to the fullest.
And only then will it be the right time for a change of pace—a change she will be fully prepared for.
But not a minute sooner. Here are the things she wants to accomplish before settling down:
1. She wants to date as many people as possible
She wants to experience love in all of its shapes and forms!
She wants to love different people at different times, in order to see what it is that she truly wants to be left with.
She doesn’t want to marry the first person who gives her the tingles.
She wants to date the hell out of him and then move on and experience different kinds of love.
And only then will she be able to say she’s been through it all and be finally ready to find her true love.
2. She wants to learn to stop comparing herself to everyone else
She doesn’t want to compare herself to an occasional gorgeous girl but she does!
She knows that’s not okay and she should stop but she can’t help it. So her goal before meeting the one is to be at peace with herself once and for all.
She wants to be able to love herself, knowing she is a unique person in this world and that comparisons are a waste of time.
She is who she is and once she learns to love herself the way she loves everybody else, she’ll be ready for the real love that awaits her.
3. She wants to decide what she wants for herself in order to never settle for less
She needs to figure out what she wants out of life. Right now, she doesn’t really know.
She’s interested in so many things and God knows what her future will look like!
And this is why she’s not ready for her one just yet. She needs to find time to explore her passions in order to figure out what makes her the happiest.
And once she does this, she will be ready to focus on her romantic life, knowing exactly what she wants and never settle for less.
4. She wants to spend time with herself
Yup! She wants to go on solo adventures! She wants to do stuff that makes her sing with joy and not have to adjust to anyone’s needs!
And guess what? That doesn’t make her selfish! It makes her awesome because she knows that sometimes you just have to put yourself first.
There will come a time when her entire life will be devoted to her new family (hubby and kiddos!) and she will be fully committed to making them happy.
But now, she’s solo and loving it! She wants to make the most out of every moment because God knows how long she has left before all that changes.
And this is why she is putting her own needs first and enjoying her own company to the max.
5. She wants to live by her own rules
She wants to be the boss of her own life. She needs to be in charge of what she does and when she does it because she won’t always have that privilege.
She wants to live in the moment and use every chance she has to do the things she loves.
She doesn’t want anyone from her world telling her how to live her life.
Her parents have taught her a lot and she appreciates her friends’ opinions but right now, it’s her way or the highway! And she loves it.
6. She wants to focus on her closest friendships
As we all know, life doesn’t always give you time to do everything you want and to spend time with all the people you love.
And this is why she wants to cherish the friendships that make her life so easy to live!
When she’s too busy having a hubby and little ones, she won’t have time to just drop everything and rush to her friends for a girly night and movies.
So she wants to do that now. She has people she loves more than anything and she wants to focus on them now.
She’ll go out and make a lifetime of memories with her best friends.
She wants to spend days gossiping over drinks with them and not feel guilty about it.
Those are the people she considers family. And even though she’ll love them forever, she won’t always have the time she has now.
And she plans on using every second she has because they are the ones who have always stuck by her side.