1. You don’t communicate like you used to
Do you have the feeling that you can’t bond with your partner anymore and that all the talk you two do is just talk? It is not communication or understanding but just sharing information, so you could organize things.
You don’t feel any need to open up to him, and you’d rather tell all the important things to your friends. You believe it won’t be so important to him, so you hold back from telling him. You don’t think that he would even be interested in what you have to say, so you just prefer to keep your mouth shut and spend time on your phone even if he is around.
2. You don’t feel good when you sleep with him
You remember that sleeping with your partner and waking up in his arms was the best feeling for you, but now you don’t feel that way. You would rather spend the night out with your friends or watch a good movie than to play with him under the sheets.
You simply stopped feeling the way you used to, and you are often sad because of that. You would love it if you had a successful relationship with your man, but for some reason, you don’t feel so attracted to him anymore.
3. He annoys you the most of time
It is normal that couples annoy each other from time to time, but if you feel that you get annoyed by your partner every day, it is definitely a bad sign. It means that you don’t love him as much as you thought you did and that you two need to work on your relationship if you want to make it work.
Because if the negativity is all you feel with him all the time, then you should ask yourself why you are with him in the first place. A man who will annoy you on a daily basis is never going to make you feel calm and happy, and that is what matters the most, right?
4. You don’t have any need to tell him you love him
Do you feel that you don’t feel nice when you tell your man you love him? You somehow feel that by saying these words you are lying to him and that he feels it as well. If this is what’s happening in your relationship, then you should try to work things out because this is not something that happens in happy relationships.
Just remember how many times you told your man that you love him when you just started dating, and now you feel like you are living with a stranger. It is a sign that your relationship needs some work if the both of you are willing to save it.
5. You are not jealous anymore
Remember those times when you were freaking out every time your man would go out with his friends? You stayed at home, wondering with whom he is and if some hot girl will hit on him. But now, you feel totally indifferent, and you don’t even care about where he goes and who he goes with.
You feel good in your own skin, and you feel that you wouldn’t even suffer so much if he leaves you. You are not so crazily in love with him anymore, and you feel you can live without him. If you feel all of these things, then you really don’t love your man like you used to, and maybe it is time to finally let him go.
6. You don’t try to look good for him
When you just started your relationship, you would spend two hours in the bathroom getting ready for a night out with him. But now, you just grab the first clothes you have in your wardrobe, and you go out with him. You don’t have any need to dress up for him because you feel good in what you already wear.
Maybe he has stopped complimenting you for some reason, and that’s why you don’t want to look nice for him. But maybe you just don’t love him that much to always be tip-top for him. But no matter what it is, it is not good, so you should work on that.
7. You don’t think about him as much as before
When you just started your relationship, your partner was on your mind all day, but now you don’t remember him at all when you are at work. You often catch yourself forgetting things that you should have done for him. And the worst part is that you don’t even feel remorse for that.
You are calm even if he is mad and even if he doesn’t want to talk to you. These things would probably have hurt you before, but now you don’t mind if your partner doesn’t talk to you. In fact, it is like a holiday for you because you will be able to do things you like.
8. You hate when he calls you in the middle of the day
When your phone rings in the middle of the day and you see him calling, you feel sad. You don’t want to talk to him, and you think that he can really be a pain in the butt when it comes to certain things. You sometimes don’t answer his calls because you know that you would probably fight with him, and you don’t want to ruin your day.
And you always wait for a couple of hours before you answer his texts or his phone calls. Obviously, he is not the most important person in your life, and you don’t feel complete with him.