Men are not so good at expressing their feelings, but they are not good at hiding them either. Just by paying attention to his behavior and the little gestures he does, you can tell if he is attracted to you or not. It’s something he can’t control; his heart is in charge of his body language and just by looking at him, you can see how he feels. Check this list of the most obvious signs of his attraction towards you.
1. He initiates all of the communication
It can be either him approaching you at the bar or sending morning texts. He has no problem with taking a risk, because he has decided that you are worth taking one. It’s a clear sign that he is interested in you and that he wants to get to know you better.
2. There is always a smile on his face when he sees you
That’s something he can’t control. Just the fact that you entered the room, even if the two of you are not going to speak a single word, is making him genuinely happy. And you know what kind of a smile that is. It’s the stupid grin on your face that appears when you see your crush, the smile that you can feel coming from your heart, the smile that warms you up.
3. He is always leaning closer
That’s something he is not doing intentionally. He will lean towards to you while talking, because he enjoys your company and wants to connect to you. Lowering his voice, whispering in your ear, smelling your perfume. The list of actions can go on and on, but the point is he wants to be close to you. He will still leave you enough space to step away if you feel like you need to. It’s also a great way to see if you’re comfortable around him, too.
4. He makes an effort to see you
He will suggest going to watch a movie you once mentioned or going out to dinner, bowling etc. He listens to you when you’re talking about the things you care about and he is determined to make them all happen because spending time with you just feels good to him. And it’s a great bonus if he gets to make you happy, too.
5. He finds a reason to touch you
Whether it’s a lock of hair that’s fallen on your face or something you have on your shoulder, he will look for any excuse to touch you. And if you’re sitting next to each other, his knees will touch yours. It’s subtle touch, nothing too pushy, nothing to make you run away, because he respects your wishes and is trying to determine whether you like him back or not. It will also show in gentle touches on your back or your arm.
6. You catch him watching you
You know what I’m talking about. When you’re lost in conversation with someone else and you look towards him, but he is already watching at you. And all those times you were on your phone, only to look up and see a look of dreaminess on his face. Is there a bigger sign of attraction than the look of utter adoration on his face while looking at you?
7. He seems nervous
He plays with his fingers, runs his fingers through his hair and is constantly adjusting his clothes. He wants to look his best for you and wants to be the best version of himself, so naturally, it makes him a bit nervous. It’s something he does not know he is doing which makes it a hundred times more adorable.
8. He is genuinely interested in getting to know you
You can tell that he is interested in what you have to say. He will ask you about your favorite music, what you love and what you don’t, what are your craziest dreams and biggest fears. That’s not some random small talk he makes with just everyone. It’s the ultimate sign he is drawn to you and wants to keep you around.
9. He touches and l*cks his lips
We unconsciously touch the parts of our body where we want to be touched or kissed. He will play with his lips and lick them, without even being aware of it. He is preparing them to kiss you and he wants you to kiss him, too.
10. He compliments you
Not in a way that men compliment women they are interested in having for one night or a short term. He compliments your eyes and how they change color in the sun. He notices the way your face lights up when you see a puppy or the way you smile when you read something you like. He compliments not just your appearance, he compliments all the little things that make you different from all the other women, including your amazing mind and gentle heart.