In every relationship, there are always drastic experiences and turning points that question everything. Even if you love your partner, sometimes he brings you to his own limits. From the outside, too, forces and opinions influence the partnership, which can shake them up and trigger many fundamental discussions. Such small and large quarrels and crises, if left over, usually lead to a strengthened relationship and a better partnership. And when you’ve gotten over these things, you have the best chance of a happy ending.
1. I’m sorry for what I said when I was hangry …
Love goes through the stomach, but sometimes it can fail him. If both partners are hungry and can not really come to a decision, they will only pimp on each other and be annoyed at each other until one takes a heart and makes a decision. Until then, however, words can fall that are not meant to be that way, but nevertheless have an igniting effect. In order to realize that food could be the solution to the problem, you have to know your partner well. After a few bites of food at the latest, the resistance then melts away and you have taken the first hurdle.
2. You go to a friend’s party together
… and knows nobody there. Of course it can be totally nice, if the friends and acquaintances take a nice and find a conversation partner with whom you feel comfortable. After all, you do not want to stick to your sweetheart like a little burdock. Often fall in advance phrases like “Please do not leave me alone all the time!”, Because the horror idea is that you as an outsider in a corner crocks chips. Often one is watched as the new or the other and must always answer the same Small Talk questions. It’s just uncomfortable. If you, as a couple, actually manage to leave the party together laughing and master the situation without it ending in quarrels and frustration, then an important step in the relationship has been taken.
3. The family of the partner needs getting used to
The mother is just a bit overzealous, constantly asking tantalizing questions about plans for the future and things they simply do not do, and the dad keeps telling embarrassing stories about the other family members and creating an uncomfortable atmosphere. On the other hand, it is also difficult to imagine that there will be no friction when the partner’s parents do not like you so much. In most cases, parents accept the choice of their child, but can not resist a small swipe. And who likes spending time with people he does not like? On the other hand, the partner’s family is simply one of them, and depending on the depth of the bond and the nature of the relationship, disagreements about visits and celebrations can leave a deep rift in the partnership.
4. The holiday together does not go as planned
Only on vacation do you get to know a person from all sides. At home, one rarely goes away and on vacation the partner mutates suddenly into a party-goer par excellence. While one hangs in the ropes until noon, the other spends lonely hours waiting by the pool. But other scenarios that mean more stress than holidays are conceivable. If the hotel so does not correspond to the description, you miss the flight or a suitcase does not arrive, you can beat it on the whim. Now, how strong the bond and the relationship really are, because such stressful situations often bring an unfamiliar side to the partner.
4. Conjure and set up together
A truly war-treading step is the first common apartment. The move alone is stressful, but the flat also wants to be furnished and furnished. And the spirits are often different, because compromises have to be made and deco-articles sacrificed. Rarely is a couple lucky enough to enjoy a consistent taste and style of interior design so that a middle ground can be found with which both can live literally. Because both should feel equally comfortable in their new home. Lessons of humility usually follow, in which men are forced through furniture exhibitions and women have to defend their clothing inventory. Even in the furniture store, the drama is almost inevitable: in most cases, one is an absolute shopping muffle. A joint tour through a furniture store or a large department store can heat up so many minds. While one hovers in the shopping heaven, the other trudges through the corridors in a state of complete overstimulation and is simply overwhelmed and unwilling to make decisions. One learns the partner in terms of dominance, willingness to compromise and willpower from a whole new page. Who survives this together and afterwards does not feel like sitting on the wrong couch, is made for the future together. Willingness to compromise and willpower from a completely new side. Who survives this together and afterwards does not feel like sitting on the wrong couch, is made for the future together. Willingness to compromise and willpower from a completely new side. Who survives this together and afterwards does not feel like sitting on the wrong couch, is made for the future together.