Dating can be stressful, especially when you don’t know what to expect on that first date. It’s always a great feeling when you can find yourself in the safe and warm atmosphere of a relationship, but prior to that, dating can be a wide-awake nightmare. You spend your time swiping left and right until you swipe your way into a first date. Now all you have to do is worry about making a great first impression so that you will get a second date. No big deal, right? Hopefully, we can relieve some of that first-date stress for you.
There is a lot of good that can come out of dating, but there can also be some bad. But we want the good stuff, right? Maybe it would help to know what to expect from the guy you are about to meet. If you know what he’s anticipating on the first date, maybe the two of you can find some similar ground to build something off of. Here is the one thing he’s looking for on the first date (based on his astro sign).
24-Aries: He May Take You Out Of Town
You might think that going on a road trip for a first date might be a little crazy, but that’s how an Aries thinks.
Remember the Friends episode where Monica went on a first date with Pete Becker and he took her on a private jet to Italy for pizza? She thought he was crazy, but he was likely an Aries.
It may be overboard for you but maybe a day trip out of town would suit you better. These are the kinds of guys who love adventure and are up for anything.
23-Aries: He’s Going To Be Competitive
If you really want to see the true side of an Aries take him somewhere where he can unleash his competitive side. You could go to an arcade, or target practice, or even to the carnival. He will take advantage of showing you exactly what he’s made of. It will be a great first date because it will keep you both active and it will be a lot of fun. There is likely something like it that the two of you can find in your city.
22-Taurus: Try An Outdoor Activity
If you hate the outdoors, you might want to avoid a Taurus altogether because they love the outdoors. A great first date would probably be a hike. Just make sure the weather is supposed to be good for your date or it could end in disaster, but that could always be your great love story that you tell your kids. If you want to impress your Taurus date, then an outdoor activity is probably what he is looking for.
21-Taurus: He’s Expecting To Fill His Belly
One thing that a Taurus wants on a date is food, the more delicious, the better. The best thing to do is start the date off with eating and then go from there. If a Taurus is hungry throughout the date, he’s going to be distracted and even irritable. So, make sure he eats something! The bonus for you is that a Taurus believes in old-school courting, so he’s likely to wine and dine you the way you deserve.
20-Gemini: He’s Going To Want Intellectual Conversations
Geminis love knowledge and learning new things. They are always reading and watching documentaries.
They also love spending a rainy day in a museum. As for going on a date, they are going to want to be stimulated in some way, whether that be with an excursion or just intellectual conversation.
You can plan a date for a museum that way you can get a sense of what he likes without making mistakes. Taking him to a place where he can critique paintings is perfect.
19-Gemini: Expect Him To Ask You A Lot Of Questions
Geminis love conversations and because he’s so interested in learning new things, he’s going to want to learn as much as he can about you. You might feel a little anxious because he keeps asking you questions about family and friends, but he’s just trying to get to know who you are. It’s a lot better than going on a date with a guy that only talks about himself. The one good thing about dating a Gemini is if you feel nervous on the first date he will fill in the silent areas.
18-Cancer: He Wants To Cook For You
Not every girl would be comfortable going to a guy’s house on a first date. It all depends on how comfortable or how much you know him prior to the first date. We wouldn’t recommend doing this on a blind date, but a Cancer is the kind of guy who would probably invite you over for dinner and cook for you. He will prepare you a nice home-cooked dinner and what more could you want? You might find that you enjoy cooking together.
17-Cancer: He May Ask You To Netflix And Chill
Us girls know what Netflix and Chill usually means, but for a Cancer, he may not just have one thing on his mind. Cancer men are homebodies, so to them, a perfect night might be at home chilling and watching a movie.
They like the comforts of home and the idea of doing an elaborate first date somewhere might cause him some anxiety.
It doesn’t even have to be at his place, it could be at yours if you feel comfortable. You might find it romantic snuggling up to watch a movie.
16-Leo: He Likes Things To Be Lavish
Leo isn’t going to go through the pressure of a home-cooked meal. It’s likely to wow you with a lavish date. It’s likely if you are going out for a date with a Leo, it will be to a fancy dinner.
He likes lavish things and he wants a lady who likes the finer things in life as well.
He will wine and dine you and won’t ask you to foot half the tab either. This guy will likely plan the entire night for you and you won’t have to lift a finger at all.
15-Leo: He’s Open For A Daring Date
Not sure what to do? Don’t dance around the topic because a Leo is likely to get bored. He would be up for a daring night of club hopping if you like that scene. Leos like to be seen and the club is exactly the place that he can present himself and show you off. Having a night of new experiences and delicious drinks might be exactly what the two of you need to get to know each other better.
14-Virgo: He Might Have A Hard Time Relaxing
He’s going to obsess about the whole date because he is a perfectionist. He will try his best to put in a good first impression so that you will like him.
You may find him stressed out, but it’s kind of cute because you know he’s trying his best to make the date as perfect for you as possible.
He’s going to go all out and that might mean a fancy restaurant or possibly even a hot air balloon ride. You could probably ease some of his worries by telling him what a great time you are having.
13-Virgo: Take The Pressure Off Of Him
If you want to make life easier on a Virgo, you could plan a simple date of going for coffee to ease the stress. Sure, he may want the perfect date for you but that could wait until date two or three. You could make things low key by hitting up your local coffee shop or café so that the two of you could get to know each other in a drama-free environment. It may help him to relax so he doesn’t completely clam up on you.
12-Libra: He May Want To Go Dutch
Libras love equality in all its forms and that means he may want you to split the check with him. You may love the fact that he believes in equal rights until he asks the waiter to split the bill.
You may believe that a man should pay the bill on the first date, but he’s likely to disagree with you.
The way a Libra’s mind works is that he just wants things to be fair and harmonious. Whether you are feeling harmonious at that moment or not, just be prepared to pay your half of dinner.
11-Libra: He’s Going To Text You Right Away
It’s always up in the air as to whether you are going to hear back from a guy after the first date, but with a Libra, you probably will.
Because he is fair and balanced, he’s going to want to make sure that you are having a good time as well. When you part ways, he’s going to want to check on you to see if you had a good time.
If he likes you he is going to text you afterward and see if you would like to go out again. He’s a friendly guy who will go out of his way to make sure you are having a good time.
10-Scorpio: This Guy Is Going To Be A Real Charmer
A Scorpio may be exactly what you are looking for if you want to feel like an absolute goddess. He’s going to be charming and compliment you all night long.
He will have you feeling like the most beautiful woman in the room and who wouldn’t want that?
He’s passionate and intense and may even be a bit overwhelming for you if you aren’t used to that kind of attention. He’s definitely going to be the kind of guy that is hard to forget.
9-Scorpio: He Likes To Play Games
The downside to the charm of a Scorpio is that it could be his way of hiding something. He may be giving you compliments but on the other hand, he also doesn’t want to appear too interested.
He can be full of mystery at times and hard to read. There is a chance that a Scorpio man will play games with you.
He likes to test his dates to see what their values are in life. He’s vulnerable so he uses these games to protect himself before he commits to you in any way.
8-Sagittarius: He Will Plan A Creative Date
It’s very unlikely that you will end up with dinner and a movie with a Sagittarius. These guys get bored easily so he’s not going to want to go on an average date. He may take you to the beach and light a bonfire or want to have a picnic under the stars. Whatever he plans, it’s going to be different from a typical first date. He will pull out the stops so that you have an exciting and memorable first date.
7-Sagittarius: Explore Cultural Delights
A great date with a Sagittarius could be a food festival. He doesn’t want your average date so instead of going to any old restaurant, the two of you could go to a food festival.
That way you can taste foods from different cultures which would appeal to his sense of adventure.
You guys will have a great time together trying out new dishes and laughing about the ones you loved and hated.
6-Capricorn: Likes To Show His Interest
If a Capricorn likes you, then you are going to know about it. If he becomes smitten with you, it won’t be long before you have his heart.
You may notice on the first date that it takes some time to get him out of his shell, so just take things slow.
Something low key and casual is what he will be looking for. One a first date he won’t do well in a group setting or a party.
5-Capricorn: He’s Going To Want To Know Everything About You
Being on a date with a Capricorn can be overwhelming because it will feel like you are being interviewed for a job. He’s not going to waste any time.
If he likes you, he’s going to want to know if there is relationship potential there.
He won’t be rude and truly he is such a nice guy, he just wants to know if you could be the one for him. Regardless of what you do on the date, you are likely to have a really good time with a Capricorn.
4-Aquarius: Doesn’t Want To Be Tied Down
He’s another sign that isn’t going to be interested in dinner and a movie. He’s going to be creative and choose something fun for your first date because he wants to have a ton of fun.
That doesn’t mean he wants to go on an hike; he may choose to have a dinner on the beach or check out some of the best views in the area.
Regardless of the date, he chooses you won’t be bored because whatever he comes up with will likely not be anything you have done before.
3-Aquarius: He Wants Things To Be Casual
This sign is a hard one to figure out and that might make you feel disconnected on the date. He is going to plan a fun date but he’s also going to want to keep things casual.
He’s someone that you might have a hard time hearing from after the date.
It may not have anything to do with him liking you, he just gets busy and loses track of time. He doesn’t focus a whole lot on his personal life, so he may not get in contact with you right away.
2-Pisces: He’s Going To Be Romantic
If romance is what you are looking for, then Pisces is your man. A date with a Pisces is likely to feel magical and adventurous.
You will need to be relaxed and go with the flow with this date. Just enjoy it and see what happens next.
He’s going to be respectful and a great listener on this day. You will feel like you have his full attention. He’s going to make you feel like he understands you and it’s not fake, he is genuinely trying.
1-Pisces: There’s A Chance It Might Be Awkward
If he likes you on the first date, he may want to move fast and lock you into a relationship. That may be exactly what you are looking for or it can make you feel really awkward. While he is super interested, he can also make things feel awkward. He is a people pleaser, so he can also make you feel like he’s trying too hard. That can be a turn-off for some women.